One important characteristic which defines a real man is his decisiveness. He knows what he wants and where he is going. If he has to do something, he does it! He doesn’t keep procrastinating and leave getting things done until later on. Even his word is decisive. It’s either “yes” or “no” and he sticks to it. If he says something you can be sure that he is going to do it. He is reliable.
When a man is indecisive, he allows doubts and confusion to take place in his mind and, eventually, his life becomes a mess.
“(…) for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind.”
James 1: 6
“He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.” James 1: 8
Maybe, you have been putting off a very important decision which needs to be made (get baptized, ask for forgiveness or to forgive someone, take your love life seriously, choose a career, etc.). Whatever it may be, the time is now.
You are going to work on this and, from now on, you will not procrastinate anymore. You will not leave the things you have to do today for tomorrow. You will you be a man of YOUR word and you will keep it. You will notice that just by applying these simple steps, your life of quality will increase considerably and you will grow to become a real man.
Let the process begin, to separate the boys from the men!